I know now one gets on here except for Sean and Hallah, so maybe yall can help me out???So my day has been everywhere. I went to meet Codie cause he said he wanted to talk. Turns out he was trying to get me back. I was not in the best of moods to begin with so that just made my day worse. He sarted getting up in my face, telling me to stop ignoring is phone calles(after he calls 45 times exactly no exzageration there! I counted!) and to take him back and to stop acting like an butt, I told him NO. He started walking away, he heard me say Wow this is stupid, he comes marcing back with hands in the air like hes about to hit me, and get right up on me, and yells at me. I was scared... I seriously thought he was going to hit me, I was shaking so bad, I got my stuff and hurried out the door, and followed me and blocked my way, and then he started calming down and finally apologized for the way he acted. He doesnt understand that im not going back out with him, ever... even after that. He even tried getting me back when I was dating Blake, he called me over and over and over again even while I would be on the phone with Blake. I know for a fact ive made the right decision cause I know I CAN survive with out Codie! Its like everytime I finally start liking a guy and start dating him he has to interfear with my rellationship and try to get me back, and thats why I always cam home in a bad mood.. and I blow up on people and I ignore people.. cause im afraid I might blow up on them. I told him these exact words"Codie, were not going to date, I come home in a bad mood everydayfrom school. I want move on and live my life with whom I want to live it with? We are only friends from here on out. and if you dont wanna be that then im sorry idk what I can do.I dont love you anymore. Im sorry, its time for you and I both to move on.." he got mad and walked off. Did I do the right thing? yes! I did. but should I even keep him as a friend. cause I dont need friends like that either.. and I dont need th drama in my life. im trying to make better choices on who I hang with and so on people who will infulence me to be a better christian, and live my life the right way, im tired of my life being controlled by this maniack!
whats the best thing to do..???
Well from the sound of this, I wouldn't communicate him. If I was you when he got in your face, I would have freaked outtttt. And does usually blow up like that? Because if so, it's probably not good to be around him. In the end, it could wind up badly. And I don't think that would be good, at all. So I wouldn't get involved with him in any way again, if possible. But like you said, you've seen that you can live your life without him. And clearly, he isn't the best person to be around. And it may not be good to be around him. I hope I helped! I can't text after 9:30, but I can receive phone calls! So if you need, me call me! :)
ReplyDeletethank you babe and yes a lot he blows up like that! im so scared. i think im just going to ignore him! cauuse im afraid one day even if we are just friends hell hit me!
ReplyDeleteUh, yeah. And fear in a relationship is not good at allll! If you're afraid to be around someone for fear that they'll hurt you, then you shouldn't be around them at all. And plus, I don't want you to get hurt, physically or emotionally!
ReplyDeletethank you hallah ur a bunch of help. i love you. i dont even want him in my life. i cant even believe you took all that time to read my thingy. i love you so much!
ReplyDeleteHa, what can I say, I'm here for you :) Oh, and I commented on your "everything happens for a reason" post! But yeah, it's just probably not a good thing to be involved with someone like that. And if he doesn't leave you alone or does something to hurt you, I'll beat him up :) Haha, but I love you, too girl :)
ReplyDeletealright ill make sure to tell you. thank you again.
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